Men have different ideas about life, family life, but three basic needs in relationships with women can be distinguished. It depends on how much a lady is able to understand this, accept and give what is necessary, whether she will become the one and only chosen one or move forward, having gone astray.
1. The Need for Respect
A man, receiving unconditional respect in the family, not for any special merits, but simply for what he is, feels the need to grow and develop for the benefit of his beloved people who value him so much. Otherwise, he gets discouraged, and the desire to strive for something more disappears, because he is not recognized, no matter what.
2. The need for trust
It is much easier for a man to live in a family in which they believe him and do as he said, without getting into bickering, disputes, without making squabbles and scandals. The fact that he is trusted in advance imposes a responsibility with which he feels significant, needed and loved. Not every wife can, contrary to her own opinion, follow the position of her husband, meekly submitting to his will and accepting all his undertakings with enthusiasm. But only such a mature woman is worthy of family happiness and harmonious relationships.
3. Need for admiration
Of course, a man commits acts in the name of self-affirmation, but in the eyes of his beloved woman. You should always remember this and thank him for his attention, for trying to cheer, for surprises and gifts, for the truth, for everything good. After all, if you take everything for granted and be capricious, which is not enough, but your friends have more, then most likely it is not the desire of your spouse to strive for the best that you cause, but to stop making attempts that will not be really appreciated.
Wise women will never claim primacy and dominance in family relationships. A smart housewife will be a reliable support and psychological support for her husband in all his endeavors. A stupid lady is eager to plunge her man in an unequal battle for the dubious laurels of the leader, thereby humiliating her husband's manhood and making him an unfortunate henpecked, a drunkard or a reveler.
Men, like women, entering into official relations, hope to receive moral and spiritual satisfaction. In the person of his wife, they want to see not only a caring mother, a faithful mistress, a seductive nymph, but also a reliable friend who can be trusted with the most intimate and who is not shameful to rely on.
