Despair, mental pain can accompany loneliness. A person can feel such a state after breaking up a relationship or betraying a loved one. How to live if it seems that no one needs it?
First of all, you need to understand that loneliness and despair are just temporary states with negative emotions. In fact, it's easy enough to feel needed and not so alone. One has only to turn to face other people and do something pleasant for them.
Ask other people for help
Quite rarely, it can happen that a person has no relatives or friends at all. Rather, it is a terrifying exception to the rule. Therefore, if you still have relatives or friends, then in a difficult situation you must definitely contact them and tell about what torments you. If you sincerely ask them for help, they will definitely help you. In this difficult period of life, it is worth forgetting all the past grievances that could have been accumulated on loved ones and friends, and remember how happy you were with them in the past. These are not strangers, they know you better than anyone else, so in a state of depression from loneliness, it is best to turn to them.
Communicating with a psychologist is another way to sort out your own problems, speak out and get professional advice. You can contact the psychological help desk by phone or make an appointment.
A good option would be to make new acquaintances, both in the real world and on the Internet. It is impossible to imagine that from such a huge number of people at least someone would not respond to your request to communicate and would not accept you for who you are. For more successful communication, you need to contact the groups of those people who are close to you in some way: go to the library or bookstore if you love books, look at the match if you are a fan of sports. This search for new acquaintances can be a great help to defuse the situation, and it is also a great way to find someone who will understand you.
Become needed by yourself
If ways to make new friends don't work, or you can't find the right person yet, try helping people. This is one of the best options to make you feel needed. You can help in animal shelters, nursing homes, hospices, orphanages, shelters for the homeless. You can participate in volunteer campaigns to clean up the city or collect money for treatment. Any help will be needed by others and will make them feel better.
Ultimately, you can get yourself a pet or even adopt a child. After all, there is no one more faithful than a furry creature and no one more important than a child. It is impossible to feel unnecessary with them.
