I would like to be a necessary and respected person, to realize that life is not in vain. If you feel like no one and you absolutely do not like it - change, build your life the way you want, and raise your self-esteem.
Instructions
Step 1
Consider changing jobs. If your current occupation seems completely meaningless to you, you do not see any real benefit from your work, do what you respect or admiration for. Of course, it is impossible to obtain some necessary professions without the appropriate higher education: you simply cannot become a doctor, scientist or rescuer, but there are still many options to feel your usefulness in less qualified specialties. Also, do not forget about the possibility of obtaining another higher education.
Step 2
If you are not ready to give up your current job, become a volunteer. In your free time, help children, the elderly, homeless animals, while on vacation, choose not an expensive resort, but go to a volunteer camp to help those who need it. Collect things and take them to less wealthy people, if possible, make donations.
Step 3
Produce something. The visual result of your work, which can be seen and touched, will help you to increase your self-esteem. Make jam, knit sweaters, weave baskets, make furniture, carve wood figurines, grow vegetables. Let yourself be truly carried away by what you do and you will enjoy the hobby immensely.
Step 4
Make friends if you haven't already. Create your social circle where everyone will be loved and significant, including you. Close people will be interested in your affairs, ask about successes, sincerely empathize with failures. You will not be anything to them.
Step 5
Become an expert in any field. Develop, expand your horizons, get people to turn to you for advice. A string of people who want to know your opinion will help you feel needed and significant.
Step 6
Make people happy. Help your friends, please your friends with little things, give gifts to your loved ones. Pay attention to the people around you, and they will treat you with care and appreciate you. You are no longer an empty space - you are the person who makes others happier.
Step 7
Don't be afraid to take risks. If you have an opportunity to do something and achieve success, get involved in an adventure, because this is a great opportunity to stop being nobody in a short period of time. But don't expect to reap laurels for the rest of the time: you will have to work hard to stay where you wondered.
