Friendship, like love, is an equally important phenomenon in the world that supports people in difficult and happy moments. It so happens that friends in their relationships become more confused than a man and a woman in love.
Small children cannot live without friends both in the game and during their time together, they actively and violently experience emotions. It can be jealousy, resentment, and even envy. Children do not hide anything, they cry and tell their parents about their problems. Don't think that something changes as you get older.
Of course, friends learn to control their emotions, to contain their anger. Often people who know how to analyze are able to understand that they themselves are to blame for the problem or they are trying to understand the offender. However, rarely can anyone fail to experience anger, resentment, envy, or something similar that destroys any relationship. These feelings can be hidden, swallowed, but from this they will not go anywhere.
The constant hiding of emotions leads to the accumulation of negativity and dissatisfaction with each other. A huge number of friendly couples break up for this very reason. It does not matter at all whether it is a man or a woman, what age and field of activity they have. Everyone tries to hide their dissatisfaction with others, accumulating more and more grievances.
Naturally, if a person has a rich inner world and a compliant character, it is much easier for him to build relationships. In addition, it is easy for kind and sympathetic people to forgive insults and forget about all the roughs. However, rarely who can boast of a perfectly ideal character and the ability to forgive everything and always. One way or another, people are subject to mutual opposition.
Any relationship needs repair. You need to work on them, clarify and try to change yourself for the better. After all, only true friends are able to help in the most difficult moment, and the ability to build relationships with people changes any personality for the better. In order for friendship to last for many years, one must not hush up any discontent, incomprehensible moments, hide grievances. You need to talk to each other, despite the fear of ruining the relationship.
On the contrary, silence leads to secrecy, pretense in friendship and discord in the future. Don't be afraid to clarify the relationship by calmly communicating what you don't like in certain situations. You yourself will be surprised how effective it is to express your discontent simply and calmly. The main thing is not to succumb to emotions and not go over to a showdown.
