Don't bother your family life with unnecessary problems. Maybe you are making subtle mistakes that disrupt your relationship from the inside. Identify and eliminate them.
Do not "saw"
For the third week you have been warning that the faucet is dripping in the bathroom, but the repair is still not visible? Instead of constantly "nagging" your partner, prefer to complain to your friend over a cup of coffee. It won't hurt anyone, but if you constantly pressurize, pollute your relationship with negative energy.
Do not be on your side
Complaining to someone who is willing to listen how hard your life is with your partner? If it's serious, get a divorce, if not, then don't complain. Constantly complaining and whining does not represent a constructive solution to your potential problems. If you have problems with your partner, solve them with him, and not with your friends in the cafe.
Don't control each other's purchases
"Lord, why do you need another new cell phone?" The next time you want to ask a question like this, bite your tongue. If you don't have huge problems with funding your basic life needs (plus, your partner pays for his own expenses), allow each other a little joy. Even if you are married, you do not have to report to each other why you decided to give yourself a small share of happiness.
Do not move away
Are you both so busy with your job, kids or other interests that you forget to take time out and use it for yourself? When was the last time you spoke calmly? When was the last time you had sex? If you don’t make time to spend time together, the distance between you will grow and there is a danger that you will not be able to find your way back. Don't underestimate the power of communication and connection between you. Time spent in relationships will pay off handsomely.