When girls get married, they sincerely hope to build relationships based on love and fidelity. Unfortunately, not all such hopes come true. Is it possible to understand in advance whether a man will cheat in marriage?
Signs of a tendency to cheat appear in the early stages of a relationship, but they usually prefer not to be noticed. As a rule, they start to be remembered very late, when it is already impossible or very difficult to correct the current situation. It is necessary to analyze the behavior of a potential spouse from the first stages of acquaintance.
How can you identify signs of cheating propensity from the very beginning?
Find out about how your chosen one built a previous relationship.
Popular wisdom says that people, as a rule, do not change and in most cases repeat their mistakes over and over again. Find a way to find out if your partner has cheated in a previous relationship. Some people do not hide this, in other cases, information received from friends and acquaintances will help you. If cheating took place in a previous relationship, there is no reason to build the illusion that they will not be this time.
Also, the presence of double relationships (wife, lover) speaks of a certain psychological makeup of a person, which is unlikely to change without conscious and purposeful efforts.
Analyze the attitude towards women of your chosen one.
To understand whether a man will cheat in marriage, it is necessary to understand what a woman means to him in the broadest sense. For some, a woman is just an object of pleasure, for others, a muse or an object of reverence. Some men see women as a potential friend who can be trusted, while others see them only as potential mothers.
Is the woman the one that needs to be used or the one that needs support and admiration? What is the responsibility of a man to a woman and a woman to a man?
If you understand how your potential chosen one answers these questions for himself, you can almost certainly understand whether he is prone to cheating.
If his inner perception of a woman can be characterized by such concepts as respect, care, a reasonable sense of duty, trust, sincerity in a relationship, then most likely such a man will not be inclined to cheating.
And vice versa, the desire to devalue, use, put their interests higher will give out a willingness to go to the left.
See how the attitude towards a woman manifests itself in life, and not in words.
To understand how your chosen one really treats women is possible only by the actions that he performs. Assurances about how he will treat well, combined with deception and actions that are opposite to such words, should be alarming.
Analyze the relationship in the parental family of the potential groom. Is the relationship between his father and mother built on respect, what is the psychological climate in the family? Usually, children adopt the scenarios of relationships between relatives on an unconscious level and implement it in their lives. This can only be changed with the help of serious psychological work.
To understand whether a man will cheat in marriage, you need to take your time, study your chosen one, his motives and believe your heart - only it is able to recognize many hidden things.
