In each of the women, nature has laid down a program for creating a strong friendly family, for having children. Men, on the other hand, are polygamous by nature, and modernity has presented women with another difficulty - a man's unwillingness to marry. This is a sensitive question, especially if the absence of a stamp in your passport bothers your loved ones, thereby haunting you. On this occasion, only one thing can be said - if he really is the one who deserves to become your chosen one, then it is worth fighting for him.
Instructions
Step 1
First, don't get hung up on the idea of getting married. Do not bore him with talking about wedding dresses, rings and your future life together. He may simply think that you do not need anything other than a wedding and a wedding dress. And no self-respecting man wants to play the role of a wedding doll.
Step 2
Instead, try to invite happy married couples to visit as often as possible, then your chosen one will be able to see firsthand that marriage is not such a terrible and worthless business.
Step 3
Another incentive for a wedding is the desire to have children. This instinct is laid down by nature, and a woman, driven by maternal feelings, wants to find a companion who would make her family happiness. Talk to your chosen one, argue your desire to legitimize the relationship not only by the fact that this is required by morality, but also by the fact that the time has come for you to become a mother and you can no longer wait. A loving man must understand this.
Step 4
If you have not understood yet, then find out why he is in no hurry to marry you. You may need a frank conversation that will put everything in its place.
Step 5
The reason for his reluctance to marry may be an elementary fear of losing his freedom. In this case, you must understand what exactly he means by his freedom, and whether you are able to keep it for him after the wedding. If yes, then let him know, directly or covertly, that you will not encroach on his freedom.
Step 6
A man may be dissatisfied with you, i.e. some of your traits, features, habits. He loves you, but is not sure if he can put up with these shortcomings. If you really want to marry him, be ready to change. But at the same time, it is not a sin to demand the same from him.
Step 7
Another factor that may be holding him back is his financial situation. First, his ambition may not allow him to shoulder the cost of the wedding on someone else's family. Secondly, he is not sure whether he is able to support his family on his salary. This is more of a psychological problem than a financial one. Your task is to prove to him that you are able to help him in difficult times. If you prove that you can provide support, then the ice will break.
Step 8
The most difficult case is when a man is psychologically very dependent on his mother, who does not allow him to leave her house, referring to weakness and helplessness, and in every possible way prevents, sometimes unconsciously, from creating a new family. In this case, look for the "key" to the heart of his mother. Otherwise, this situation can drag on for many years.
