Many Nice Guys have the unpleasant quality of being shy. In addition, a young man may simply not know that a girl likes him. In both of these cases, the girl will have to nudge the guy to the first step if she wants to be with him.
Instructions
Step 1
If you see a young man you like in a public place, your task is to push him to meet you. This can be done both with the help of a radiant smile addressed to him personally, and with more complex methods. For example - if both of you are traveling in transport, sit next to him, take out a crossword puzzle and after a while ask him some word. Either ask to open a bottle of water for you, or help you do something just as easy. After he helps you, thank you and give an unobtrusive compliment. Then it's up to him.
Step 2
In a situation where you already know a guy and expect active actions from him, be more attentive to him than to other guys: smile more often, listen with enthusiasm to what he says, laugh at his jokes. Touch it casually. Your touch will make him notice you if he still hasn't. However, don't be intrusive. It's up to you to nudge him a bit, not push him into a corner with your sympathy.
Step 3
Text him about a holiday. It is better if it is not quite an official occasion, such as a birthday or New Year. During this time, he will receive many messages. A name day or a professional holiday is ideal. Try to make your SMS personal and memorable. Do not download the greeting text from the Internet, write yourself.
Step 4
Ask him for help - pump up your bike, fix your computer. At the time when he will help you, say how well he is doing everything. The next day, also thank him and tell me how much he helped you. If he offers his help in the future, take advantage of his offer as soon as possible. Just make sure that this help is not at all difficult for him and does not bother him in any way. Feats are all in the future, at this stage it is important not to scare the guy away.
Step 5
A good method is to ask him for advice. It includes all the advantages of the previous version and does not have its disadvantages. The young man will not have to strain at all when giving you advice. At the same time, he will feel that in your eyes he is a significant and authoritative person, which will give courage to the most timid guy.
