The number of step families in Russia is growing every year. The main problem faced by these families is the child's rejection of the new partner of his parent.
Connecting two families also means connecting their values and life orientations. Very often, children do not accept other people's rules of life, under which they have to re-adjust. For this reason, a large number of psychological conflicts arise.
To minimize the difficulties of family life, try not to introduce drastic changes in the life of someone else's family. Don't put yourself in the position of the child's new mother or father. It is very difficult to get a friendly disposition of children, especially if the child is in adolescence.
Do not interrupt your child's communication with their biological parent. A break in communication can become a cause of depression, stress, and aggressive behavior for a child. Stay on the same front as your child's real parents when it comes to parenting.
Share your concerns with your child. Show that you are the same person as everyone else. Do not try to avoid topics of an upcoming divorce. If the child is interested in family problems, then tell him everything as it is.
Try to create new traditions for your family. Encourage your child more often at first. Take him to the zoo, to the cinema, or wherever. Show that you really enjoy and enjoy spending time with him.
