Quarrels are a constant component of all love stories. Perhaps, it is they that add pungency to the senses. However, after discord, reconciliation must follow.
Preparing for an apology
Of course, this sounds a little odd. However, before asking for forgiveness, you should first prepare well. First of all, you need to understand why the quarrel occurred, where its origins are. Knowing this, you can avoid repeating such scenes in the future. Understand and accept that in any quarrel, both sides are to blame - do not look for the guilty ones. Try to forgive her and yourself, do not assess the situation critically, and tune in to an apology.
When apologizing, try not to remind you of the reasons for the quarrel, otherwise you may quarrel again. Sometimes it’s enough to just say, “Forgive me,” sometimes it takes more. In any case, before asking for forgiveness, it is worth considering the text of the apology. Words should come from a pure heart. Do not fake feelings, because all women are very sensitive to lies. If she considers the apology to be fake, then there may be no second chance.
Choose the right moment to apologize. You should not ask for forgiveness immediately after a quarrel, because often a girl is simply not able to forgive yet. This is due to the fact that women are more emotional creatures and, being at the mercy of feelings (just after talking in a raised voice), she will not be ready to take the situation soberly. Therefore, it is worth waiting for the moment when the girl relaxes and the emotions subside.
In any case, do not demand an answer right away, she may want to think about it or say that she needs to sort out her feelings. Respect her needs and don't insist on immediate forgiveness. After all, the main thing is that she agreed to listen to the apology, which means that this relationship is also dear to her.
How to apologize: general guidelines
The most important thing in this matter is attitude and sincerity. It is worth apologizing wholeheartedly, but without pretense and excessiveness. In this case, the main thing is not to go too far, otherwise everything can only be spoiled even more. So, the attitude should only be positive and constructive. Do not think that apologizing to a girl is something out of the ordinary and now she should feel obligated. This is not at all the case, no one owes anything to anyone, and no matter who decided to apologize first, it is more important that the first step has been taken.
It is best to apologize in person, because in this case you can directly contact her: touch, exchange tender glances, hug. Yes, and simply with personal contact it is much easier to assess her condition than when talking on or in ICQ. You can invite her on a date and come with a gorgeous bouquet of flowers, or invite her to the movies, to your favorite restaurant, or to a concert.
However, there are times when a girl herself does not want personal meetings. In such a situation, the best solution is not a call or an email. Because from these methods already blows facelessness, cowardice and insensibility. Your best bet would be to write a real letter and deliver it with a courier and a bouquet of her favorite flowers. You could go even further and order an apology billboard next to her house. In fact, you just have to want, and the best way to do this depends on the girl herself.
