Quarrels are often spontaneous. You cannot prepare for them and analyze how to behave better and what to say. What to do if you understand that you are wrong? How to apologize to a man correctly7
Instructions
Step 1
Be sincere. In no case should you apologize if you have not fully realized your guilt. If you yourself do not believe in your apology, then how will a man believe in them? Be honest with yourself and your partner: don't lie. Let the person know that you have realized everything and that you really regret what happened.
Step 2
Choose the right time. Do not apologize right away when a man is angry with you and the first strong emotions have not passed yet. Give it time to cool down. For some it takes a couple of hours, while for others it takes a couple of days. If you have managed to get to know the person well, then you will feel when the first bursts of resentment will pass. But don't drag out the apology. If you miss the right moment, your conversation may go nowhere.
Step 3
Apologize in a good setting. Think through the details of the apology if possible. It is best to apologize in private with a man so that no strangers can interfere with you. If you want to apologize publicly, then you shouldn't do so before a personal apology has been accepted.
Step 4
Pay attention to the look. He will be the first to say everything for you. Look the person directly in the eye. This will testify to your sincerity. Try to withstand the man's gaze, do not look away.
Step 5
Cry or not? Many women turn tears into their strongest argument. Is it correct? It all depends on you: if you cannot restrain yourself, then cry, but do not squeeze out tears on purpose. Most men are afraid of women's tears and will do anything to avoid seeing them. Whether to use it or not, decide for yourself.
Step 6
When you apologize, use their first name. Psychologists have long found out: nothing attracts a person's attention like the sound of his name.
Step 7
Know how to stop in time. You need to clearly know the line that you should not cross. When you said what you were sorry for, why you did it and asked if the person could forgive you, stop talking. Let the man think, do not confuse him with your confused excuses.
