Everything that worries people is reflected in dreams, and the sexual side of life, as you know, occupies a significant part of human thoughts. If you have erotic dreams, this is quite natural. But perhaps they indicate some kind of psychological circumstances? You can try to figure it out.
The most common reason
Despite the fact that people are very much concerned about the sexual side of life, very few people can say that they have a regular sex life and are very happy with it. If you have a lack of sex or its low quality, then the appearance of erotic dreams is quite natural. The body "waits" for an orgasm, and sleep only indicates this. Even if everything is in order with sex in life, such dreams still occur from time to time, although rarely.
Erotic dreams are dreamed of by both women and men, but to an unequal extent. According to research, they visit men a little more often than women. But, as psychologists note, it all depends on the temperament, in which some women can give odds to any man.
At the same time, there are some differences between female and male erotic dreams: the fair half of humanity often has psychological overtones.
Even if you have a very depraved dream that can confuse you, this is completely normal. The norms of morality and decency are acquired in the process of education, these are the restrictions that are needed so that a person can exist in society. But in a dream there are no such restrictions, so you can see anything there.
What an erotic dream can mean
Sometimes dreams do not mean anything, but sometimes they can indicate some psychological characteristics of a person or reflect the situation in which he is. The frequency of erotic dreams, for example, suggests that in real life you really miss sex. The more you think about sex, the more often you dream about it.
To understand exactly what your dream is about, it is helpful to write down as many details as possible immediately after waking up. Ask yourself, which of the events did you like? What was shocking? Have you experienced pleasure? It is important what your partner was like, how he behaved with you. All of this may reflect your secret desires or fears.
Try to build associative rows. Is there something in your dream that hints at some recent events in your life? Have some of your secret and strong aspirations been reflected in a dream?
It happens that dreams tell people about trauma and repressed emotions. Try to "spin" things that resonate deeply with you, even if you don't understand why. Remember to write everything down to make it easier to draw conclusions.
Whatever you find, remember that dreams are often just dreams. The subconscious mind does not always try to say or explain something to you, sometimes you just see interesting "pictures".
