Self-doubt can manifest itself clearly when a person gesticulates a lot, scratches his forehead or the back of his head, bites his lips, puts his hands in his pockets. When your hands are in your pocket, there is a sense of calm and satisfaction.
Pockets are not really designed to deal with insecurity. Their functional purpose is to carry small items: keys, key chains, lighters, matches. During cold weather, people often use their pockets to warm their hands. This, of course, is not prohibited, but it looks ugly, especially when it comes to a girl.
Where do habits come from?
Most of the habits are developed during childhood. Looking at their parents, children begin to imitate them. If dad prefers to keep his hands in his pockets, then the son will soon follow suit.
When talking to a person on the street, many people hide their hands in their pockets. This is due to excitement if the person is shy and withdrawn. A pocket is a dark, secret place where the hands do whatever they want. You can fiddle with your keys, wrinkle your tram ticket, thereby alleviating your emotional state a little and cope with anxiety.
If a person wants to get rid of the habit of keeping their hands in their pockets, it is necessary to buy clothes without them.
Sometimes hands have nowhere to put them when they just hang along the body - it seems ridiculous, and they are comfortable and warm in their pockets. A woman copes with such a problem with a bag. Hands are busy and no problem. But men with a bag rarely go, they prefer to put everything in the pockets of their trousers and jackets. The most valuable thing is located there, so these treasures must be protected from outside encroachment. Hands in pockets are the very same treasure guards.
Sign language
There is body and body language. According to this language, the location of the arms along the body is a sign of weak will, remorse, submission. This posture can be observed in the army when the soldiers are in formation. A guy or a girl on a subconscious level wants to avoid this hand position, and therefore feels awkward if there is nowhere to put his hands.
Sexologists argue that a man with his hands in his pockets is not satisfied with his intimate life.
Illness is the cause of a bad habit
There are cases when a person is complex about his appearance. Ugly hands and nails are the cause of the complex. A person will begin to hide his hands from prying eyes by all means. Nails can become unsightly if fungus has settled around them. There are also many other diseases affecting the face and skin all over the body.
