Love … This amazing feeling can bring joyful and positive emotions, or it can bring mental suffering and tremendous pain. Quite often, these emotions are beyond the control of a person, and he dreams of loving and not suffering.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't let the feeling consume you completely. By giving yourself completely to your loved one, you run the risk of receiving in return something completely different from what you expect. Don't lose your head, keep your composure, controlling your feelings and emotions. Don't be fooled. See things realistically. Without the desire to notice any change, you can experience much more frustration and pain than looking soberly at things and relationships. Be independent.
Step 2
Respect yourself. By not allowing you to initially perform certain actions, you can subsequently prevent suffering and experiences. Do not let the slack so that the loved one is not tempted to hurt. Do not let yourself be offended and insulted.
Step 3
Listen to the opinions of loved ones. Adequately take what they say about your relationship, even if you don't really want to hear it. Quite often, a person who loves a lot does not want to perceive the real situation. He begins to look for various excuses, just not to agree to the arguments that are given by relatives. When a person himself begins to realize that his friends were right, it is too late, and he experiences tremendous pain, suffers and torments.
Step 4
Don't look for various flaws in your partner. Do not suspect him of all mortal sins. By winding yourself up once again in vain, you will be nervous and worried, perhaps without any particular reason. Have other interests, do not focus only on relationships, otherwise suffering and torment will not be avoided.
