Living in society, each person at least once in his life is faced with such a problem as the termination of communication. Ideally, breaking up relationships between people always requires preparation and reciprocity in dealing. Before you stop communicating with a person, take a good look at your decision. And, if you have clearly decided on your choice - go for it.
Instructions
Step 1
Given the fact that this person was once the closest and dearest to you, try to do everything possible to make the separation painless. Talk to him, express everything that worries you, and - most importantly, convey - to your former friend (girlfriend, comrade, boyfriend, loved one) why you want to end your communication. Do this as delicately as possible, without hurting the pride of your interlocutor. Remember that everything in this life is cyclical: if you hurt someone, it will return like a boomerang to you.
Step 2
The person with whom you want to stop communicating should be clearly aware of the fact that you are not suitable for each other. Depending on the reason for the breakup, the whole process of the breakup depends. If your friend or loved one just bored you, became uninteresting, make every effort not to make a notorious personality out of him. Reduce communication to a minimum, not abruptly, but gradually. If this person has caused you serious harm or brings continuous negativity, of course, it is necessary to break off relations with such a person abruptly and without a chance for rehabilitation.
Step 3
There is also such an option when you seem to have decided to end the relationship, but still some doubts remain that prevent you from doing this. Then you just need to calm down and just talk with this person about what does not suit you in your relationship. Express everything that is painful, convey to the interlocutor the reason for your grief and resentment. Perhaps then he will realize his mistakes and sincerely ask for forgiveness.
Step 4
After that, you should consider the life adage that real friends are easy to lose but hard to find. Remember that every time you decide to end a relationship, always weigh the pros and cons in advance, and never do it in the heat of the moment.
