Long distance relationships are not uncommon today. They can appear on the Internet, and only then go to the real world, and sometimes lovers are separated by some external events and they have to part for a while. At the same time, human behavior can be very different from live communication.
You can express your feelings, desires and emotions in different ways, but expressions live or via the phone, the Internet are very different. Someone is more frank at a distance, but in reality they are shy or afraid. Others can only be close and frank and passionate, and on the phone seem aloof and calm. It depends on the temperament and attitude towards separation.
Love in the distance
When there is no personal communication or it is reduced to a minimum, people are immersed in illusions. They start to invent something, to see confirmation of this. If the girl in the correspondence shows more feelings, if she expresses her feelings more vividly, it is highly likely that she finishes the picture of your relationship. She comes up with some kind of fairy tale, and believes in it. At the same time, there is no shyness, embarrassment. She communicates not exactly with you, but with the virtual hero, which she created herself.
Many girls dream of living in an ideal union, but in reality everything turns out to be different. Everyday questions, real meetings show that people are not perfect, that there is no 100% compatibility, which means you need to adapt, close your eyes to some shortcomings. Therefore, live everything is not as romantic and beautiful as with virtual communication. And for a girl, returning to normal contacts can be very difficult.
Detachment in communication
There are people who are uncomfortable with being at a distance, in such a relationship they feel unhappy, they can hardly cope with this situation. If a girl was next to you, felt touched, heard words not through the phone, she may be unhappy with communication only through the network. For her, remote interaction does not replace intimacy, so she behaves coldly.
Some people hate communication without eye contact, without touch. For them, the phone and the Internet are not interesting, they use them, but they miss real life madly. And if a girl has such a mood, then she simply cannot be sensual when she does not feel your presence nearby. And this does not mean that she has fallen out of love or is not bored, it only means that she is not ready to replace real communication with virtual. You need to meet with such a lady as often as possible so that she does not get bored with sucking and does not pay attention to who is nearby.
How to communicate at a distance
To get to know the girl's mood better, to understand her feelings, try to use different ways of communication. Network correspondence or calls are interesting, but ordinary letters can also be added to this. Of course, sending them on paper is inconvenient, so email is fine, but such narratives can add a lot of variety to communication. It is also a pleasure to read these messages and write them. It's like a fun dialogue that can be repeated over and over again. Experiment with the means of communication, and if in doubt about her feelings, just ask her about the true experience.
