Sometimes there are people who have love relationships exclusively with partners from other cities. They rarely meet with their beloved, communicate mainly by correspondence or by phone. What can be said about the personality of the person who prefers such a relationship?
Recently, cases have become more frequent when people began to have love relationships with partners from other cities. This is facilitated by the development of communication tools, mainly the Internet. Numerous portals and dating sites allow potential lovers from different cities to meet. Only 20-30 years ago, such cases were quite rare.
There are people whose love partners appear mainly only in other cities. They themselves explain this by chance. If you look closely at such cases, you can come to interesting conclusions.
Our seeker (it doesn't matter if it is a man or a woman) starts a relationship in another city for several possible reasons:
1. Reluctance to take responsibility for the relationship.
Nonresident relations are characterized by the fact that, in many cases, it is difficult for such people to connect their destinies due to the inability to live in one place. Each person is attached to his city, his job, his relatives and friends. This can be a convenient excuse to keep your partner at a distance and not enter into a serious, committed relationship like marriage. Such people may complain that circumstances do not allow them to connect, but deep down they got exactly what they wanted.
2. Fear of relationships.
Sometimes people are very afraid to enter into new deep relationships, for example, due to previous negative love experiences. In this case, they prefer telecommuting.
3. Desire to manage your time independently.
Long-distance relationships allow you to always or almost always be the master of your time and not be accountable to anyone in your actions. If there is no legal half nearby, you can leave for the club, go to friends, etc. at any time.
4. Reluctance to invest effort and money in the development of relationships.
Having a partner in another city can significantly reduce material costs (gifts, flowers, going to the cinema, etc.) and efforts made in the mainstream of caring for another person. This is usually typical for an infantile person who is not ready to invest strength and energy in a permanent relationship. It is easier for such people to communicate on the Internet or on the phone, to emotionally support a partner and express their feelings, than to help in real life to solve any problem.
Sometimes only the awareness of the reasons can change the situation, in other cases the consultation of a psychologist and deep introspection will help.
