It seems to be who cares who you meet or what you do. However, one has only to move away from the unspoken rules, as you immediately run the risk of confronting, at best, with misunderstanding, at worst - with condemnation. And the most unpleasant thing is that you get imperceptibly under someone else's opinion, and there is a chance to live life according to someone else's laws.
The wedding is canceled
Everyone around is just saying that it's time to get married and have children. Moreover, there is a reliable man nearby. So also all the friends around are mothers of many children. And so, the dress has been bought, the restaurant has been ordered, the guests have been invited. But the day before the wedding, you clearly understood that you were not ready for marriage, especially with this person. Of course, you can go down the aisle for the sake of decency. Sacrifice your happiness, but please others. But why? So do not delay the situation - no one needs it. It would be much more honest to tell a man about this. Like you, he will be able to find his happiness. It is much worse to live a few years in quarrels and hostility, and then divorce.
I love a man younger than myself
Men are different not only in appearance, but also in perception of the world. And at 25 you can be a mature person. Therefore, if you fell in love with a man many years younger than yourself, do not be afraid to declare it. Mutual love is a rarity and must be appreciated. Don't let prejudice affect your life. Introduce the chosen one to family and friends, otherwise he may think that you are ashamed of him. And remember, if he was able to charm you, then your relatives will surely like it. Although it may take more time.
I do not want children
In our society, the idea has long been rooted that every woman should want children. And by a certain age, it is also desirable to give birth. Society condemns and disapproves of childfree supporters. And on the one hand, it is understandable when parents start asking questions: "When will you get pregnant?", "When will you give birth to a baby?" - because they dream of grandchildren. And it’s very strange to hear the same questions from colleagues and neighbors. They have absolutely nothing to do with your life. So stop making excuses to them. Close this question and stop any talk on this topic. If you choose this position, then interest in this topic will very quickly disappear. The issue of childbirth is very serious and it is categorically impossible to follow someone's lead. A baby should only be given birth when you really want it with all your heart.
Everyone around me thinks I'm a bad mother
After the baby was born, you began to pay as much attention to yourself as before. Or they decided to go to work, and the husband went on maternity leave. For your family, this is the best option: he likes to do housework, and you build a career and be always in shape. Nevertheless, you hear condemnation in your address. However, for some reason, no one condemns parents who leave their children to grandmothers or hire nannies. But your spouse is a responsible and caring father, and this is a reason for pride. And only he, and in the future and your child, can appreciate what kind of mother you are.
