To become a more sociable person, you must first of all become open to communication. No amount of advice will help you become an outgoing person if you withdraw into yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, the right attitude is important: positive, cheerfulness and goodwill towards others. Instead of a gloomy expression on your face, have a sincere smile!
Step 2
Being outgoing doesn't mean communicating with everyone. But if you want to develop communication skills as quickly as possible, then practice communication constantly. This means not getting away from situations when you need to communicate, but looking for these situations yourself. And do not say that you have no one to communicate with! There are many people around you, and in each of them you can find at least something interesting, each person is pleased to hear a compliment.
We saw a neighbor - say hello happily, ask about something or make a compliment. Stand at the cash register in the store - smile at the seller, say something nice. Looking for a street - do not hesitate to ask a passer-by, say thank you, say something nice or just smile. All this seems like a trifle, but in fact you are teaching yourself to be open to the world and people.
Step 3
Take the initiative. If you find yourself in an unfamiliar company, you do not need to sit in a corner and wait for someone to pay attention to you. Walk up to someone and start a conversation. You don't need to invent anything, just say something like “Hi, I'm Lena, what's your name?.. This is my first time here, I just thought I'd drop by this party. Do you often come here? That's all. Any beginning that comes to mind, and then you will not notice how you start to communicate.
Step 4
Often, an uncommunicative person faces a problem - where to start a conversation, what to talk about. There is no need to think over anything, act impromptu! Do you know what people like to talk about the most? About myself! Therefore, show genuine interest and consideration for people. Ask about what interests them the most - about themselves. For example, about hobbies or hobbies. Listen, ask. Most importantly, show understanding - this is what all people need.
Step 5
If you are reticent, this does not mean that you cannot be sociable. All you have to do is pay attention to people and ask about them. For example, you call a client who last told you that his son went to school. Ask how the school is doing, whether the child likes the school.
Step 6
A sense of humor will not be superfluous in communication.
Step 7
If you are shy, which is often the case with uncommunicative people, do not focus on it. The more you communicate, the faster you will get rid of your shyness. In the meantime, treat this with humor and slowly overcome your fear of communication. And by the way, most people like shy people. That's not fatal! For example, the famous Andy Warhol has always been shy, but this did not stop him from becoming successful and self-actualizing in creativity.
Step 8
Don't be arrogant or self-deprecating in your interactions. Be natural and simple, and you don't have to pretend anything.
Just be yourself and you will definitely succeed!
