A shy girl looks attractive in movies or TV shows, but in reality it can become a barrier to a relationship. Especially when, in the presence of the guy you like, the face becomes covered with paint, and the ability to communicate normally disappears. It is not difficult to stop being ashamed of guys, it is enough to understand yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn to accept yourself for who you are. Shyness is associated with self-doubt. This may relate to appearance or the inability to communicate in an interesting way. If you become obsessed with your complexes, you think that everyone is paying attention to it. In fact, when communicating with you, people may not even see what you are embarrassed about. They are more passionate about their own complexes.
Step 2
Don't fantasize about what others will think of you. You can think over the thoughts of people, their opinion about you, come up with condemnation, ridicule, but in reality this is not. Do not draw monsters in the dark, because you do not know their true thoughts. In fact, few people will remember your missteps or laugh at an awkward phrase.
Step 3
Communicate more. Your shyness is caused by inexperience, so exercise, talk to people, not only in your normal environment, but also with others. You can start by communicating on the forum or social networks. On the Internet, you can reread a phrase, think about how to say it better, and if you have nothing to answer, just send a smiley. When communication on the Internet does not panic you, you can stop being shy about guys in reality.
Step 4
Work on weak points. If you can't get the complexes out of your head, try to get rid of your shortcomings. Most often, girls are confused by their appearance and lack of confidence in their own attractiveness. Take a sober look at yourself in the mirror and find attractive features. Every person has them, so now look in the mirror every morning, focus on your merits, this will help you feel more confident. Try to hide flaws: clothes, cosmetics, hair.
Step 5
Confusion can come from not having anything to say. The reason may lie in a small horizon that should be broadened. It is difficult to communicate with a guy about topics that you usually discuss with your girlfriends. So try to find out more things to talk about with the young man. You don't have to memorize cars or football if you're not interested, but you can find topics that interest both you and the guys.
