It so happens that the people around you think that you are a closed and closed person only because you are, in fact, shy. Why limit yourself when you can enjoy a life full of interesting events?
Shyness is not only a barrier to personal growth, but also a way, on a subconscious level, to shift responsibility onto another person. I will not ask, I will not approach him, I will not ask, I will not start a dialogue, I will not tell other phrases. Do you know them? Do you use them often? If so, stop urgently.
Remember! The golden rule of all time. Audacity second happiness.
Again, the main thing is to know when to stop in everything.
The foundation of a good relationship
People like it when the interlocutor takes part in the conversation, and not just nods in return. By talking, you can endear the person to yourself. The main thing is to be open and sincere. If the interlocutor is unpleasant to you, do not go against yourself. Why waste time with someone you are not interested in?
Man is a strange creature. Even psychologists cannot explain many actions and deeds. For example, how to explain the fact that people want to fall in love with a modest, sweet person, but at the same time they are drawn with all their soul and body to an arrogant, sometimes impudent image? Inexplicable but the fact.
Shyness is the result of low self-esteem. How can you not love yourself? You are such one, there are no more people like you! At least for this it is worth respecting and appreciating yourself.
As you will treat yourself, so will those around you.
Self-doubt makes life difficult in many areas. You can't get to know the person you like, but who knows, maybe it was the same one? At the interview, you are closed and cannot open up, but who needs people in a prestigious company who are not able to defend their point of view? You, corny, were insulted, and you, again, cannot answer with anything and stand up for yourself.
You just have to be liberated! People reach out to you on their own. In the end, life is one! Live, rejoice, make mistakes and do not be upset over trifles. Everyone makes mistakes, but not everyone, after the next rake, closes in on themselves.
Stop thinking about what others will say, how will they look at you, what opinion will they have? What's the difference? Who do you live for? For society or for yourself? Answer this question for yourself. And everything will fall into place!
