Family life does not consist only of moments of joy, love and complete mutual understanding. There are situations when spouses cannot contain their emotions or parents and children turn to screaming and insults.
Sometimes from the lips of loving spouses, parents and children, brothers and sisters, words and insults come out that they could not say to unfamiliar people. For some reason, in some situations, the closest and relatives get more nasty things than colleagues and friends.
Hope for forgiveness
Many factors can negatively influence a person. Troubles in life, problems at work, conflicts with friends make them more and more irritable during the day. And in the evening, when fatigue is added to stress, the individual breaks down on those who seem to need to be cared for and cherished - on relatives and friends.
Some husbands and wives do not hesitate to say nasty things to their faithful because they are sure that they will surely forgive them in the future. There is no direct calculation here. But in the subconscious of a spouse or spouse there may be a belief that in any case their hysteria will pass with practically impunity.
Such people know that they are loved and take advantage of it. At some point, they can cross the line and irrevocably ruin the relationship with a loved one.
But while there is still patience, love and a desire to be a family, quarrels, insults and squabbles can continue.
High requirements
Sometimes people throw out a lot of negativity on their loved ones, because they make excessive demands on them. Instead of accepting a loved one for who he is, such individuals seek to remake him and create an ideal.
In such cases, people react too harshly to the shortcomings and mistakes of loved ones, resent very violently and cannot cope with their own emotions. Therefore, people are ready to forgive a lot to friends, colleagues and acquaintances.
If individuals who are not so close do not behave as expected of them, this does not cause such a reaction as the offense of a loved one.
A reason to break loose
Unfortunately, some individuals use loved ones when they cannot fight back other people. For example, a person is infuriated by the behavior of his boss. Management picks up, demands too much and treats subordinates incorrectly. Instead of fighting back the boss, whom he fears for several reasons, the individual goes home and breaks down on loved ones.
It happens that a person restrains himself in front of strangers. He cannot make a scandal in a store or some institution if he is treated unfairly. But when he comes home, he breaks down on his family and completely unjustly offends them.
In such situations, relatives and friends were not just the last straw at the end of a generally unsuccessful day. They are real victims. A person who is afraid to say the same to those who have power over him comes off them.
