Why is it difficult to raise your income level? How can you avoid this?
I suppose that almost each of us faced a situation when, at certain periods of our life, the level of our earnings could not rise above a certain level. We change jobs, look for part-time jobs, take additional workload, and as a result we have a very definite amount with minor fluctuations. Does the situation sound familiar? Let's try to understand the reasons.
Despite our conscious aspirations to earn more, there is always some unconscious permission to ourselves to have this or that amount of money. Where does this permission come from? As a rule, from the parental family. The child gets used to the level of life that his parents were leading, and continues, by inertia, to reproduce it already in his life.
Therefore, most often, it is quite difficult for a person to radically change the material standard of living in comparison with the standard of living of his parents. Although, of course, there are exceptions.
Also, our internal permission to possess a certain level of material wealth can be socially conditioned. For example, it is widely believed that teachers earn little, bankers earn a lot, and so on. And if a person considers himself to be a certain professional community, he can automatically set a financial bar for himself.
Surely, there are still reasons for the emergence of an unconscious permission or prohibition to attract money into your life.
And now I propose to investigate your level - the level of income that you allow yourself to have per month and above which you cannot "jump".
To do this, write a few numbers on a piece of paper. These will be the amounts that you will present now as monthly income. Write a few sums, the one that you now receive per month, a little less, one and a half times more, twice more, etc.
And now we are going to do a little exercise. Imagine, one by one, that you receive the amounts from the list per month and carefully observe your feelings. Start with the smallest amount, take your time. Tune in to how you will feel, how comfortable or uncomfortable it is. Whether you are experiencing any sensations in the body, the heartbeat may increase or other sensations arise. Spend no more than 3-5 minutes for each amount and move on to the next. Living the sensation when presenting income levels, somewhere you will feel very comfortable, somewhere uncomfortable. your task is to catch those amounts that give you pleasant sensations, relaxation.
If at some point you feel that tension and anxiety will arise with an increase in the presented income per month, this will mean that already this level of income, most likely you will not be able to admit it into your life. This means that the previous amount will just be the level of income that you allow yourself to have.
