It is generally accepted that first love never dies. Although, perhaps, this is individual for everyone. Nevertheless, we can say with complete confidence that it is very difficult to forget her. Despite the fact that first love often ends in parting, the memory of her remains with a person forever.
Happiness and pain of first love
When a boy or girl falls in love for the first time, they first truly understand what it means to love someone unconditionally. They experience a lot of new, previously unknown emotions and, like a whirlpool, plunge into them. Undoubtedly, first love is one of the brightest and most beautiful feelings in a person's life.
Unfortunately, first love rarely turns into a family union or even a long-term relationship. Perhaps this is because the people who experience it are still too young and inexperienced and do not know how to maintain such a fragile and quivering feeling. However, many years pass, they meet with new love, create families, sometimes get divorced and remarry, but they continue to remember the person who awakened the first feeling in their souls. For some, first love remains the happiest moment in life.
Perhaps a person will later meet a love that will fill his whole life and become his destiny. But even in this case, the memory of the first love will not disappear anywhere. What connects with a person who is loved for the first time cannot be compared with anything. After all, then everything happened for the first time: the first spoken and heard declaration of love, the first parting, perhaps the first experience of intimacy.
The influence of first love on a person's later life
For some, first love becomes the main criterion in building future relationships. So, if she was full of passion and exciting adventures, other relationships may seem boring. When a new relationship does not meet the established criteria, memories of first love will rush with renewed vigor.
Remembering a departed love, people often think about what their former chosen one or chosen one is now doing. Sometimes this interest is so strong that they find each other on social networks or through old acquaintances. By the way, although not often, it happens that after many years the first love is reborn and the matured man and woman create a family.
Most often, the first love turns into the first parting. A young man and a girl grow up, their characters and outlook on life change. Everyone chooses their own path in life. But the first parting becomes the first deep grief for a fragile young soul. It will be much easier to relive such moments much later.
But no matter how much time passes, between people who first fell in love with each other, there remains a special, invisible and not tangible to others connection, because the first love does not die.
