Love is not a panacea for all problems. When a feeling comes to life, it can make it brighter and more amazing, but not always happy. People sometimes face the situation that there are emotions, there is a loved one, but there is no general satisfaction.
Instructions
Step 1
Love is not a cloudless feeling, it is bright and fascinating only at first, and then the "rose-colored glasses" fall off, a person finds himself in front of a harsh reality. Falling in love is replaced by everyday problems, the shortcomings of half become obvious, all this is annoying. This is a stage that all couples go through, and love is no longer so happy, the presence of a loved one sometimes even annoys. No need to be scared, wait a little, this stage will end. It is only important to try to see not everything bad, but to concentrate on the good. At the same time, give up criticism, condemnation, try to be friendly, support your spouse in everything. Gradually, respect and affection will help you become even closer, and disagreements will be forgotten.
Step 2
Feelings are like seasoning, they do not change life, they only make it brighter and more interesting. There is no need to place great expectations on love, because love itself is not able to change events, cannot solve problems. Happiness is not always associated with the presence of this emotion, and therefore it is necessary to continue the search for harmony. It is very important to start transforming yourself, change your thinking, learn to respond positively to what is happening. Resentment, guilt, fears make life difficult and unstable, it seems that the future does not bring joy. Freeing yourself from these feelings, letting go of negative experiences, you get freedom from uncertainty, every new day will bring something amazing and useful. Look for happiness not outside, but inside, and then the world will become much better.
Step 3
Analyze your attitude towards your spouse, perhaps the feelings have already died out. If love has passed, it is worth taking a short break in the relationship to think about whether it is worth moving on together. A short vacation alone will help you understand what exactly does not suit you, what needs to be changed. Perhaps after this break, you decide to leave this person, but this will only be a step towards new feelings.
Step 4
A person's life consists of several parts: family or relationships, work and fulfillment, financial well-being, communication with family and friends, rest, and more. If it works out in one direction, this does not mean that everything will be fine in others. The presence of a loved one does not solve problems in work, money, relationships with other people, which is why there may be a feeling of lack of happiness. There is no need to rush to look for reasons in a partner, it is important to correctly balance life, change it for the better from all sides.
Step 5
Think about what does not suit you in other areas? Start fixing what you don't like. For example, you can change your job or find an additional source of income. Training will be relevant, and it is not necessary to go to college, it is enough to complete courses or just start reading books that will help you succeed in the profession. You can change your circle of acquaintances or find a new hobby. By these actions, you diversify your life, make it richer and more interesting, and also switch your attention from thinking about problems in a couple to something else.
