Often we do not think about what the consequences of our rash actions can lead to, and then we try to regain our happiness, our beloved girl or boyfriend. Actions do not always lead to a breakup, often one person's patience is overflowing and as a result, it turns out that people part.
Instructions
Step 1
If the breakup was initiated by your significant other, answer the following questions: What happened? What did your partner do, were there any explanations from the initiator of the breakup, or everything went quietly and peacefully, and nothing foreshadowed the breakup. Or maybe your loved one has found another object of adoration? If you decide to return your happiness, you will have to do a lot of work on yourself, change a lot and remember all the small flaws that were accurately noticed while you were together.
Step 2
As a result, you will need to become the one whom your loved one wants to see next. First of all, analyze the reason for the breakup: did you give rise to jealousy? Have you been furiously jealous, disdainful of your partner, or maybe not taking into account requests and desires? You need to sit down calmly and write everything on paper. Remember the phrases that were said: "You are so frivolous", "you are not enough with me", "you always have funds for friends", "you love your cat more than me", "you constantly throw tantrums over trifles" … Maybe you just didn't want to hear it, it was so convenient for you to ignore everything. But now we need to pay attention to this.
Step 3
One of you must put up with other people's principles, and this someone is you, you need to return your happiness. You need to decide in advance if you can do it. Of course, it is best to sit down together and calmly discuss what you like and what your loved one likes and what you dislike about each other's behavior.
Step 4
When you understand the reason, it is imperative to make an appointment, to achieve this by any means. When you meet, you don't need to ask her or beg her. Just a loved one should understand that you have changed, become better - nothing more. It is not necessary to say that you cannot live without this person, this will aggravate the situation. On the contrary, show that you are living with optimism, life goes on.
Step 5
It is necessary to have 3-4 such meetings. Say that you realized that you were jealous, treated badly and now you understand everything. Do not speak as if pretended, your words should come from the heart. Do this, your significant other believes that you have understood all your mistakes in the past and will try to correct them in the future. Hint that someone has already laid eyes on you, but you are not yet ready for a new relationship and do not know whether to try. And then, when you catch on with possible rivalry, you need to disappear. No calls, no meetings, no reminder of your person. At least two days.
Step 6
Then you will understand everything yourself. If a loved one calls you first, then 95% that he will return to you. And if not, think, is it worth it to humiliate yourself and try again? What have you become after you decide to regain your happiness. Of course it's up to you to decide, but always remain a worthy person.
