The first reaction to a husband's departure may be anger, fear, resentment, depression, and a host of other negative feelings. When the first emotions subside, it's time to think about your future destiny. If you come to the conclusion that you feel like rebuilding your family, the question inevitably arises of how to get your departed husband back.
Instructions
Step 1
First, you must clearly realize that nothing will be the same as before. The departure of the husband is a serious sign of a deep crisis, caused by the behavior of both spouses. Having decided on this desperate step, a man is unlikely to want to return the old order of things. Therefore, both husband and wife need to reconsider their behavior and attitude and make appropriate changes.
Step 2
Secondly, find the reason for leaving your husband, you just need to eliminate it. Each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way, and the reason for leaving the husband in each case is different. But most often the reason for leaving is either constant family conflicts or betrayal. If the first reason takes place, you need to be patient and learn not to suppress each other's volitional qualities, and to forgive small weaknesses. In the second case, it is more difficult to forgive, but it is possible.
Step 3
Third, get down to concrete action. To begin with, you need to lure your husband with some minor request: fix the breakdown, provide some help. Make it feel like you need it. Prepare a lunch or dinner in advance that you invite your husband to stay for, as if by the way. Try to look good: dress, hair, makeup. Try to act naturally, as you did before the fight. Start a casual conversation, in general, remind of the feeling of a quiet family environment, which was before, and in which the husband will most likely want to stay.
