Breaking up is always painful. Self-esteem falls, good mood disappears, there is only emptiness and a million questions inside. And it is difficult even to imagine that love can be again, but with a different one. Sometimes this state stretches for years of loneliness and torment. It will be difficult to trust another person again and open your heart to meet him.
You did not expect a break, it hurts you, but nothing can be returned. Accept this fact instead of thinking for years about what caused it. Or is it still in vain to believe that things could be different. This is just an illusion, a dream, and you live this dream, scrolling through different options in your thoughts. You'd better take it for granted. You broke up and you need to learn to live on without him. This experience is invaluable, important, but no longer needs to be carried like a flag. Sooner or later everything passes, the pain will lose its strength. And perhaps after a while, you may even have a hard time remembering this.
Perhaps this is not the first break in life, you do not need to put an end to yourself. This is an experience and it is necessary. As a result, a person becomes wiser, more cunning, stronger and richer in soul.
Do not deliberately seek new relationships, but be prepared that someday they will arise. As you strive for a new relationship, you risk falling into the trap of new pain and frustration. Take care of your life, think less about him, do more for yourself. Try to unload your brain as much as possible so as not to think about the breakup. He is most likely already busy looking for another, and you are wasting your mental energy thinking about him. Do not give such gifts to a stranger. Your relationship has reached the end and nothing can be returned, he does not want to.
Do not try to knock out a wedge with a wedge, it is fraught with new drama, not happiness. Let the pain subside and self-esteem to recover. There is no need to strive for loneliness, avoiding new pain. Lonely old age is hard.
Build new relationships or not? What a benefit from your loneliness. Maybe you are still missing something. Sex, emotions, brightness of life. Do not think about how to start and what the new relationship will be like. When they appear, everything will be clear anyway. The main thing is that you can trust the other person, open up to him. Give your heart and love again.
Parting is inevitable, as are new meetings. Both of these add variety to your life, make it brighter and richer. Don't be afraid to start over. It will hurt, but you will feel happiness and love too.
