To a crying little boy, whose car was taken away by a friend, his mother says: "Don't cry, you're a man." Perhaps that is why a grown boy so rarely has tears.
Instructions
Step 1
The most obvious option is that the man just doesn't want to cry. When watching a melodrama together, one should not expect the same reaction from a loved one as from a woman's essence. Among men, as well as among women, there are weakly sensitive, thick-skinned people. And what makes the average person cry may not be enough for some.
Step 2
The complex comes from childhood. A young man, who was taught that only the weak and girls cry, can firmly maintain the association: tears are a sign of weakness. This phenomenon traumatizes the male psyche. Strong inner experiences that do not have the ability to pour out, gradually grow internally, which is fraught with depression, irritability and other nervous disorders.
Step 3
Pride. The external symptoms are the same as in the children's complex. A man considers it unworthy of male behavior to show his weaknesses. And it is not always right. The tears of a coward are, of course, an unpleasant and pathetic sight. But the cry of a person who has lost his loved one can even be considered a necessity.
Step 4
Because it's ugly. Some men can only cry alone. They are of the opinion that even sincere tears rob them of their attractiveness in women's eyes.
Step 5
In order not to upset loved ones. These are very caring men. They don't cry so as not to disturb their loved ones and friends.
Step 6
Do not know how. Well, such men simply do not understand the mechanism of word formation and the reasons why it is worth crying.
Step 7
Optimism. Optimistic men are philosophical about everything, considering tears a waste of time. Their life is driven by the motto: everything will pass.
Step 8
Indifference. Men who are indifferent to both others and their own experiences are not always capable of not only crying, but also laughing. A distinctive feature of a man of this kind is the frequently asked question: what is it, or what is so special about it?
Step 9
They cry, but do not admit it. These men sometimes shed tears, it's just that no one has ever seen it. There are, of course, people who prefer a friend's vest for pouring out. But more often there are males who cry only in their own presence.
Step 10
There is no unequivocal answer to the question of why men cry. Everyone here will remain unconvinced. Especially the representatives of the stronger sex themselves. It is impossible to consider this statement absolutely accurate - as you know, there are exceptions to any rule.
