To follow the dictates of the heart, you need to have a certain courage, which is traditionally denied to girls. In addition, the established tradition says that a man should be the first to inform about his feelings. But sometimes it is worth breaking these traditions.
Well-founded fears
Girls are afraid to confess their love, because men do not always adequately respond to such an expression of feelings. Some men may be rude or laugh in response. Such reactions, of course, discourage the injured girl from talking about her feelings. At the very least, a rude or inadequate answer can open your eyes to the true nature of the object of adoration.
A man brought up in severity, after such confessions, can dramatically change his attitude towards a brave girl, considering her immodest and frivolous, which can put an end to the development of relations. Stereotypical thinking often ruins life. On the other hand, developing a relationship with someone whose thinking is so blinkered doesn't always make sense.
Many girls are afraid to be the first to communicate their love, because such words primarily speak of vulnerability. And if the relationship does not work out, most girls begin to reproach themselves for this and accuse themselves of wrong behavior. Although it is impossible to predict in advance what can cause a love failure.
It should be noted that if you really want to talk about your feelings, because there is no strength to remain silent, you should not abandon this idea. Of course, not in all cases it is worth starting a conversation about love first, but there are several uncertain situations that you can take a risk to resolve.
The pluses of decisiveness
If you are crazy in love with someone, and the object of your love does not see it and does not pay any attention to you, recognition can allow him to look at you in a new way. If he reciprocates, you can be proud of your courage. If his answer is negative, at least you will not have to suffer from the unknown anymore.
Sometimes men are terribly shy and modest, and only the recognition of a woman can make them leave their shell and show their feelings. Usually, relationships with such men are accelerated after the recognition from the girl. Shy men, after such a confession, are not afraid of refusal and reveal themselves from the better side.
If you have been dating a person for a long time, but he does not tell you about his feelings, do not despair, sometimes love is silent.
If you are a shy person, choose a form of recognition that is comfortable for you. You can always write a letter or even an SMS if this is acceptable to you. Expressing your feelings in writing is always a little easier.
