The girl is an amazing and fickle creature. Nobody knows what she might throw out the next second. What then to say about lofty matters? So men are wondering why a girl falls in love not with him, so positive, kind and sympathetic, but with his friend.
Why do girls fall in love with guys? What factors contribute to this? It's time to figure it out. 1. It's time to fall in love. The moment comes when you just want to fall in love with someone. She is waiting for a suitable man to appear. There are certain traits that make a guy attractive: inscrutability, intelligence, charisma, originality, unpredictability, ability to interest. The need for care and understanding. Girls are receptive creatures, and often they need a person who will support them in any difficult situation, pick up warm and necessary words. It's nice to receive SMS good morning wishes, daily calls when he is interested in how you are doing and what you have been doing all day. A trifle, but it warms the soul. It flatters your self-esteem. 3. Striving for the ideal. Probably, each person has his own ideal - a certain set of qualities and external characteristics that he would like to see in his companion, so sometimes it happens that, without meeting such a man in real time, girls fall in love with actors, directors, soloists of groups - they are unattainable and perfect. 4. Need for emotion. When life is measured, everything goes on as usual, there is a need for thrills. If a girl is successful, lives a stable life, she has a need for emotions, be it happiness or some kind of mental suffering. 5. Similarity to parents. There is a kind of syndrome - the Electra complex. That is, a girl subconsciously selects a man who looks like her father. The need for protection. On an instinctive level, every man has a hunter, and a woman is a keeper of the hearth, who needs protection. Inaccessibility. It happens that a girl rejects a guy, and he begins to show signs of attention to another. It becomes closed and inaccessible. At this moment, she realizes whom she has lost, feelings and emotions wake up. Perhaps, in this situation, the main factors are a sense of ownership and jealousy, but the fact remains that the girl is fighting for her man and does not want to let him go.
