Statistically, almost every good girl dreams of a bad boy at heart. Why is this happening? Why doesn't anyone want caring romantics, serenading and writing poetry? To find answers to these questions, it is worth turning to nature and the animal world, as well as finding common ground.
It is known that humans have only one basic instinct - the survival of their own species. It works as well as the instinct for self-preservation. He also tells us that a person must survive, get food, find a partner for procreation. Two others flow from the basic instinct - the need for sexuality and power.
So, the need for sexuality is one of the basic human needs that leads to survival. For the opportunity to reproduce, it is given. Without it, humanity would have no chance of survival, and this is natural. On the example of the animal world, we see that only strong representatives of their species have the right to intercourse. Therefore, the sexual instinct is directly related to strength. It deprives a person of all psychological barriers and weaknesses. In a word, nature needs a representative who can continue the race, no matter what. The male sex hormone testosterone is produced especially actively during sexual arousal. But also this hormone is produced not only during aggression, but also in those situations when a man experiences courage, a surge of strength, and when he feels like a winner.
In a woman's head, when she sees the image of a bad guy, the following associations are built: victory, sexual energy, procreation, strength. Weak representatives in the natural world do not have the right to reproduce, since the female, and indeed nature itself, is not interested in weak offspring. Therefore, she chooses the most cocky, the most aggressive and she is not interested in good manners and tenderness. The whole image that girls define with the word "romantic" is the image of a guy imposed by modern society. But the natural that has existed in us for many thousands of years always turns out to be stronger.
