All people have different ideas about success. Someone has accumulated a million dollar fortune in accounts, and someone opened their own small business. And for others, success means taking a few independent steps after a serious illness or quitting drinking. Some have been seeking the hand of their beloved girl for years. Having found family happiness with a loved one, they consider this their success.
Objective circumstances, such as luck and luck and the availability of an appropriate material base, account for only 10% of the total amount of factors that help to become successful. The remaining 90% is daily work on yourself. What hinders on the way to the cherished goal?
Self-doubt, self-doubt
To tune your life to success, you first need to tune your mind to a successful outcome. Among insecure people, as a rule, successful people are not found. Any changes for the better are possible only with an inner awareness of success. "I will succeed!" - this should be the motto of all subsequent life.
Disappointment in their own activities
Many of the people are determined to be successful and go resolutely towards the goal. And then suddenly everything did not go according to plan, and the first disappointment in their activities sets in. And if failures add up in a sequence, then the person's mind settles in the thoughts “everything is in vain, nothing will work out!”. Along with such thoughts comes indifference and unwillingness to act further. Do not stop! There are no desperate situations! After resting, start all over again and move forward!
Lack of support from loved ones and friends
At the beginning of any activity, risks are possible that disrupt the calm, usual course of things. What are your "rear areas"? People with strong family, family and friendship ties are more likely to be successful. Strengthen your relationships with others! Support of family and friends will be very useful in "dark" days. If there are no people nearby who you can rely on in difficult times, ask yourself: why? Maybe it's you!
Misunderstanding of others
This is a logical continuation of the previous point. Lack of support is half the trouble. Another situation is more common. People around you obstruct future changes in your life. Their logic is simple, and you can understand them: changes in your life will affect their interests, bring discomfort to their existence, disrupt the course of things that are customary for them. There is only one piece of advice: be selfish!
Lack of real assessment of the situation
A ripe inner desire does not always lead an individual to a goal. You need to be able to assess your capabilities objectively. Age, temperament, health are of no small importance in the outcome of the case. Dreams can go unfulfilled. Real success starts with your daily life and actions. Choose a load for yourself. Better to achieve real success in a small business than to fail a large project.
Doing an unloved business
Think about what you like and do not like to do? Do you enjoy the process itself? You will never be successful in a business that you do not like. Without complete dedication, you cannot succeed.
Lack of style
Extraordinary people are more likely to succeed. Originality can be expressed in the style of clothing or in appearance. The postulate “They are met by their clothes, escorted by their minds” is valid always and everywhere. Beauty is an innate factor. But everyone can become bright and stand out from the crowd. Just adhere to the principle of consistency and measure, do not provoke those around you with war paint, bright hair color, aggressive clothing.
Inability to relax
Learn to alternate periods of productive work with rest. A good rest is a rest without thoughts of work. As Scarlett said in Gone With the Wind,.
Lack of sense of humor
A good joke can work wonders: defuse the situation, come to a compromise, establish the necessary connections. Learn to laugh at yourself and your shortcomings. Smile often. People are more willing to communicate with smiling and friendly people.
That, in fact, is all. Forward to the conquest of new peaks! Success!
