Crossing the threshold of an educational institution, a young ambitious specialist dreams not only of a good job, but also of an excellent team, with whom he will have to spend most of his time. Alas, yesterday's student is not always and not everyone is happy in a new place. Sometimes it even comes to scandals and disputes. Over time, it turns out that working in the same office with some colleagues becomes unbearable. This is where knowledge of the psychology of this type of people, who are called energy vampires by the common people, comes to the rescue.
How do you protect yourself from the psychological attack of a fellow energy vampire?
Instructions
Step 1
The simplest and most proven way is to minimize contact with such a person. However, if the working conditions oblige you to be near the energy vampire or work with him on some kind of project, then this option will not work.
Step 2
The second possible way of protection is the most common radiant smile, caused by positive thoughts, memories or impressions. And the more sincere a person smiles, the more unpleasant it becomes for a vampire. A smile affects him in the same way that garlic works on the blood-sucking creatures from science fiction films.
Step 3
Learn to apply his own method of influence to the energy vampire - complain about life, do not listen to his stories to the end, ignore requests and questions, show healthy selfishness in matters relating to work and personal life.
Step 4
In no case should you show your true emotions in the presence of an energy vampire. Since it is precisely this reaction that he achieves both by his actions and by inaction. As soon as the vampire feels a weakening of the victim's defensive reaction, he finds a gap and necessarily begins to use it for his psychological attacks and provocations.
