Self-realization is a fashionable topic nowadays. True, we women are much more likely to think about how to achieve creative self-realization, forgetting about our female role. But this is necessary for everyone's peace of mind.
Each of us is a member of society, which means that we all have certain social roles. For example, a man is at the same time a father, son, boss or subordinate, friend, neighbor … Psychologists agree that a woman has more social roles, since she is more inclined towards social life. But not all roles are vital to her! You can live without a stormy social activity, and without a professional one too, but every woman must be realized as a woman.
Each woman has 3 obligatory social roles and 2 additional ones (she can “try on” them at will). Let's start with the mandatory ones.
To maintain peace of mind and the most complete self-realization, a woman must realize herself:
• as a wife - to unleash your potential as a housewife, partner, “fighting friend”. The role of the wife is so multifaceted that it includes economic, economic and organizational functions. Being a spouse and keeper of the hearth is difficult, but very interesting, and every woman needs this experience;
• as a lover - to realize your sexual and love potential, to reveal your sensuality. Without this, it is difficult to talk about true femininity. In a harmonious sexual relationship, a woman becomes a Woman in the full sense of the word, feels desirable and inspired;
• as a mother - not only children need a mother, mothers also need children. In order to have someone to take care of, for whom to be responsible, to realize your maternal instinct. If there are no children, a woman is still looking for someone to take care of: her pets, her man, the people around her. This is not always beneficial, so if you don't have your own children, you need to look for constructive ways to realize maternal feelings - to take care of those who really need it.
There are 2 more roles that are not required for a woman's self-realization, but will have a beneficial effect on her mental balance:
• daughter - even an adult independent woman is sometimes useful to be a small, capricious child. Do not forget - only such "girls" are pampered and bombarded with gifts, so if you notice that a man is putting too much on you, it's time to master the role of a daughter;
• Girlfriend is another good role. To be on an equal footing with a man is not out of principle, but out of a desire for cooperation, to be a "fighting friend" - understanding and supportive.
If you feel that you are not realizing your feminine potential enough, think about which role you “miss” in? Any of them can be developed by changing behavior patterns. Only with balance is harmony possible, so do not discard any of the roles, do not impoverish your life experience.
