A young and successful at twenty, a strict business woman and a mother of two (or three?) Children at forty, a happy, chic woman at 60. Isn't that how a modern girl sees herself who dreams of a happy life and who has already thought about the main thing: will it be implemented? Realized in terms of talent, realized as a woman. It is worth thinking about this as early as possible, because it is at a young age that a program is formed in the subconscious, which in the future determines the entire life cycle and the path as a whole.
Barbados plan
The first thing to do is make a plan. Either real on paper, or in the form of a diagram in your head: sketch out what you would like to see in your life in ten, twenty, thirty years. When would you like to have children, to finally get a promotion. A very young girl can determine the approximate age when she would like to get married. This simple way of organizing your own desires and thoughts, as the experience of many, many people shows, works.
Thoughts are material, thought forms are essential. And they are identical to real efforts. You have probably heard calls more than once: “dream!”, “Everything will come true!”. And this, admittedly, is not an empty phrase. In a person, in addition to his physical body, according to the assurances of esotericists, there are also subtle bodies: and it is there, at the subtle level, that the implementation of the program takes place.
No sooner said than done
Gradually, it is worth moving from energy messages to space and thought forms to actions. Here, too, it is not a bad idea to start with determining exactly what time and quality costs will be needed to achieve a particular goal, and start implementing them. "Under a lying stone …" or its modern version "between a lazy person and a sofa …" fully reflect the essence of the truth: without making efforts, you will not come a step closer to your cherished dream. Start running in the morning, making oatmeal for breakfast, doing yoga and reading philosophy books today. A postponed tomorrow may never come!
It is very important to leave the habit of looking for excuses, and if it is very difficult, it is worth developing a flexible system of bonuses that you can receive for uneaten chocolate (if the goal is a beautiful figure) or refusal to buy another pair of shoes (if you want to learn how to save money).
All work is rewarded a hundredfold! When you open the coveted bottle of champagne, saved in case of a good deal or the purchase of your first car, you will know that this is your personal handiwork: it was you who caused changes for the better in your life, that you are one more small step closer to your dream. Responsibility for your life, for your actions and deeds, presupposes constant control: do not rush into the pool with your head, unless, of course, the game is not worth the candle.
Gradually, step by step, implementing the plan that you have outlined for yourself, you will become a little happier every day, conquering new heights, and leaving the envious behind. Children, a prestigious job, a loving husband - if this is not yet in your life - do not be sad; do not limit yourself and in no case follow the lead of the stamps! Try to realize your feminine, and, therefore, creativity: learn languages, be closer to animals and nature, comprehend the basics of some art. And one fine day, waking up, you realize that dreams have become your reality.
