There is no need to be afraid to open up in front of a person, it is not so scary. Communicate with him more, do not be afraid to disappoint him and do not try to seem like someone you are not.
Instructions
Step 1
You need to understand what prevents you from opening up in front of a person. Understand your thoughts and find out what barriers exist. Perhaps next to this person you feel uncomfortable, squeezed. Think about why this is happening and find out what worries or worries you. Lack of trust can get in the way of being frank. And many have a fear of being misunderstood or seem bad.
Step 2
If a lack of trust is getting in the way, find out why you can't trust the person. If he has a bad reputation or was caught lying or divulging other people's secrets, then consider whether it is worth revealing. If there is no reason for concern, but still there are doubts, then communicate more with your opponent, get to know him and find out the details of his life. But do not try to reveal all the secrets, because a person may also be afraid to open his soul.
Step 3
In order not to be afraid to open up, be yourself and do not try to seem like someone you are not. In this case, you will not be afraid to disappoint the person, because he already knows your characteristics and character traits. If you create a non-existent image, then in any case, you will be scared. After all, in the eyes of your opponent, this image will collapse, and you will look ridiculous. But some behave absolutely naturally and always remain themselves, but the fear of disappointing a person is still present. Then understand for yourself that all people are different, that everyone has oddities. And if they do not want to understand and accept you, then think about whether you need such communication.
Step 4
If there is no fear, take action. Cast aside all doubts and prepare to open your soul. Communicate more, spend as much time together as possible. Discuss various topics and be sure to express your opinion so that the opponent can learn and understand your principles and outlook on life. Talk about yourself, your family, and your past life. It's not worth revealing all the secrets at once, start with small secrets. Do not forget to find out the details of the person's life so that you can get to know him better. You can find some kind of common activity that will suit and enthrall both. Plunging into an interesting process, you can see the previously unknown and previously unknown sides of the opponent and at the same time show some of your features.
