Many people think that there are a huge number of people and it is impossible to please absolutely everyone. Psychologists say that you can find your own approach to each person.
According to psychologists, there are only a few factors that cause the sympathy of others.
First of all, we are much better for those who are physically attractive. Many people mistakenly attribute a number of other positive characteristics to a handsome person, such as honesty, intelligence, kindness. Thus, it is much easier for attractive people to communicate with people.
The second factor is similarity. We like people who are in some way like us. At the same time, character does not play any role, here the similarity of opinions and lifestyle influences. Similarity in clothes also improves relationships - this is an unconditional compliment to the other person.
Another way that marketers and politicians very often use is to create positive associations between an event, a feeling, and a specific product or action. Associations like this are very helpful in building relationships. For example, a person who brings bad news cannot be sympathetic and vice versa.
If you skillfully use these factors, then you can almost always like the people around you. However, remember that everything that you use against others can sooner or later be used against you.
