Each person is a person who is endowed with some invisible or obvious qualities to those around him. Undoubtedly, each person is worthy of respect from other people. However, it often happens that one person is disrespectful to another. There can be two reasons for this: either a person who is not respected does not reveal his positive qualities and abilities, or a person who does not respect simply cannot see them.
Usually, along with respect, the person gets the attention, trust and support of the people around him. It must be remembered that a good attitude towards oneself must be earned. It is impossible to force a person to respect someone, although it is quite easy to lose respect.
You can gain respect from others in the following ways:
- Respect yourself. It is necessary to be firm in your actions, not to be afraid to express your opinion. You need to prove yourself as a self-sufficient, self-confident person.
- Treat other people with respect. You should never evaluate others below yourself. Communication should be free of bias, arrogance and hypocrisy. You need to be open, honest and benevolent towards the people around you. You also need to be able to listen to people, treat their problems with understanding. Try to support and sympathize in case of failure and rejoice for them in case of success.
- Be proactive and responsible. It is necessary to find a way out of any current situation, even if at first glance it seems insoluble. It is necessary not only to set goals for yourself, but also to always achieve success in achieving them. Observing the success of a person, others will not only show respect for him, but also strive to be in some way similar to him.
- You need to be able to admit your mistakes and shortcomings. Of course, in the case when a person is sure that he is right, he needs to defend his opinion. But if in doubt, it is better not to get into unnecessary arguments.
- Monitor your appearance. Visual perception is very important for the formation of any relationship to a person. Clothes, accessories, makeup - everything should be in harmony and match the style, image and environment in which it is used.
Of course, gaining the respect of family, loved ones and friends is not so difficult. The situation is more complicated if a person finds himself in a new, unfamiliar and already formed team.
1. Make eye contact when talking to colleagues.
2. Try to memorize all the names as soon as possible. Addressing a person by name will be regarded as a sign of attention and friendliness.
3. Politeness and friendliness are also encouraged. It is not recommended to be rude to colleagues or ignore their requests.
4. It is not advisable to actively use gestures when talking with colleagues. This can be seen as unbalanced or overly emotional.
5. Speak only the truth. No need to embellish the information, even if it can make a vivid impression. It will be very difficult for a person who fell for a lie in the future to earn respect.
There is no need to strive to seem ideal for everyone. In any case, there is a person who, among the many pluses, will notice even an insignificant minus. The main thing is to be yourself. In this case, all the advantages and individual qualities will be noticed.
