Millions of people in the world are not living their lives. Of course, the point is not that the poor want to be rich and the sick want to be healthy. This article is about how, under any circumstances, to find your purpose and find harmony with yourself.
Every person is unique. This uniqueness is provided not only by nature, but also socially, mentally, and personally. In addition, we all have different experiences, and people perceive even the same situation in their own way. All this imposes on us a certain responsibility, since no one can tell us exactly what to do and what to strive for. And the worst thing is that often we ourselves cannot know this.
Each person has a certain potential. Potential is the power to accomplish something. Someone is born with the potential of a great athlete, someone is born a musical genius, and someone has an innate ability to empathize and heal. The only question is whether this potential will be revealed or not, whether a person will have the opportunity to play sports, or alcoholic parents will instill in him the habit of drinking. If a musical genius is born into a working-class family, the likelihood that he will be able to manifest his potential is also significantly reduced. Of course, this does not mean that there are no composers from families of workers, which means that many people never reveal their genius, because there are no conditions for its development in the surrounding world.
People who have not found the way are often unhappy, they are engaged in an unloved business and languish from the fact that their life is incomplete. The instinct of self-preservation tells us that we should not dream, be practical, work where you can get a job and receive a stable salary, do not risk your well-being. So we work in industries that are not close to us, and every year life becomes more and more a burden. How do you know that you are not following your own path? A constant circle of failures, which rolls into global persistent problems, debts, illnesses, family problems. Some of these are causes, some are consequences of the very fact that you are living someone else's life, not your own.
Why should you think about your path? There are 8 billion people on Earth, and you were born not to someone or somewhere, and you were born in general, although this could not and did not happen, and all this did not happen in vain, all this is a lesson about something. The world does not punish us, but pushes us, trying to convey: "Look, you are going in the wrong direction, I conceived you differently! You were born as you were born because I conceived you!" And if at a certain moment you understand what the world wanted from you, why it planned you, and go your own way, you can get rid of the suffering of an unlived life and find harmony within yourself, and therefore give it to others.
Stop and look back, remember yourself. Remember what you liked in childhood, what made you happy, think about what brings you pleasure and haunts in your present life. Think about what you do best and from what little things do you get satisfaction, it would seem, disproportionate to the real meaning of these little things? Most likely, this is your true calling. If you like a lot, and you cannot choose - do not be afraid to synthesize, combine your talents, it is quite possible that you were created to become an innovator and move world progress. Look, ask yourself questions, no matter how difficult they seem, and the answer will surely come.
We are all wheels in the mechanism of the Universe, and if we all worked properly, the world would become kinder and more correct. Let's try to create this world for our descendants?