Sometimes a person realizes that something has gone wrong in his life. And he begins to dream of changing her for the better. But either he is lazy, postponing the beginning of a new life for the next day, or he does not know where to start the changes. But, in principle, it is quite possible to do this if you really want it.
Instructions
Step 1
First, think about why you want to change your life so much? What exactly does not suit you now, and what do you want from the changes? Write all these thoughts and wishes on a piece of paper. After that, think about how all the possible changes will affect you and your loved ones. What will they get from this: negative or, on the contrary, positive? If you think changing your life will have a negative impact on them, try to find ways to minimize it. Then make a decision when you will definitely start a new life. What will you need to turn your plans into reality?
Step 2
To get a more realistic approach to solving the problem, define your priorities. What do you want to achieve specifically in the near future, and what in a few years? Think about what obstacles might arise in completing the plan and what you need to do to remove them.
Step 3
Try to stop resenting the past. Let go of all grudges. You should get rid of all the "garbage" that has accumulated in your soul. Try to be more optimistic. Learn to enjoy the little things. Constantly instill in yourself the idea of confidence that you will succeed by programming yourself to achieve success.
Step 4
If you have the financial resources, consider making external changes as well. Renovate your apartment, buy new furniture. Try to get rid of what will remind you of the old life. You can also take care of your own appearance. Change your image completely. A new person will appear before you, with a new unfamiliar life. And it will be much easier for you to transform your life, seeing in yourself a completely different personality.
Step 5
Change your habits in everything, even in nutrition. Are you used to drinking coffee with cream in the morning? Replace it with green tea. Have you enjoyed reading detective stories all your life? Try science fiction. Do you travel the same route to work every day? Change it.
Step 6
Remember your unfulfilled desires and make them come true. Have you dreamed of great sports? Of course, you are unlikely to be able to become a champion now, but no one will prevent you from surrendering to your hobby and signing up for the sports section.
