When a person is confident in himself, it is immediately noticeable. He attracts attention with all his appearance: straightened shoulders, not tense posture, calm expression on his face. Even if you see such a person for the first time, then after a short communication you already understand that everything is in order with his self-esteem. This is easily determined by external signs, and it is very rare when the impression is deceiving.
Instructions
Step 1
Self-confidence and self-confidence is, first of all, an inner feeling. The manner of behavior, visible from the outside, is determined primarily by what a person feels. If someone who has always been quiet and indecisive tries to adopt only external signs, then he is unlikely to be able to deceive others. People feel real inner strength intuitively. So trust your feelings.
Step 2
Pay attention to how the person moves. Self-confident people do not fuss, they are calm, sometimes even somewhat slow, but not from sluggishness, but as if from realizing the importance of every movement they make.
Step 3
Listen to how the person speaks. Important signs are natural gestures and intelligible speech, in which there are predominantly affirmative sentences, and phrases such as “I don’t know”, “I’m not sure” are almost absent. The volume level is just such that the interlocutor was most comfortable to perceive what was said. If the speech is designed for a large number of listeners, then a confident person will speak loudly and clearly, and in a situation where it is better not to make noise, his speech will be quiet.
Step 4
The characteristic trait of a confident person is a direct gaze, an open facial expression, as well as a correspondence between the emotions that he is experiencing and those that he demonstrates. Strong people do not hesitate to show their true colors, and this attracts others to them.
Step 5
Aggressiveness may seem like a sign of strength, but in reality it is an indicator that a person is very afraid. Arrogance, arrogance - all these qualities indicate that the aggressor deep down fears that if he behaves calmly, then no one will notice him.
Step 6
There is another important point that may become noticeable to others not immediately, but after a certain time of communication. This is the ability to go towards your goal without looking back at others, without hesitation and not regretting what you had to lose for this.
Step 7
Knowing the signs of insecurity is also important to pinpoint a confident person. Quiet speech, replete with unnecessary explanations and details, a large number of hints, impersonal proposals, indecision in gestures: all this is needed to hide your wishes or requirements, to present them in a veiled form. The posture of such a person is usually unnatural, his shoulders are lowered, he does not look into the eyes, gesticulation is too strong or almost absent.
