Respect for the people around you is worth a lot. It so happens that there is a company of friends or a working team, friendly and close-knit, but only a few people are respected in this team. Of course, we all have inherent weaknesses, we forgive ourselves a lot and do not fight them, but those of us who have managed to overcome ourselves and circumstances always command respect. You cannot learn to respect yourself, respect can only be earned by your behavior and actions.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, learn to respect yourself. If you constantly belittle yourself and your merits, do not allow you to praise or celebrate them, inspire others that you have not done anything outstanding, what do you want from them? Of course, with this attitude towards yourself, everyone around you will treat you in the same way. Always accept praise with dignity, but do not exaggerate your merit.
Step 2
Treat people with respect, never be proud of your education, position, power, or wealth. Do not lecture or meddle with advice unless asked to do so. Try to keep your words consistent with your deeds. Always adhere to the principles that you declare in public, do not change them, depending on the circumstances.
Step 3
Do not try to appear better, more significant, smarter than you are. The deception is immediately visible and they laugh at such people in the eyes or behind their backs. Do not show excessive helpfulness in front of the one on whom you are dependent and do not offend, do not make fun of and do not sneer at people who depend on you.
Step 4
Be the master of your word, do not make empty, obviously impossible promises. Know how to admit your mistakes and honestly admit what you have done. Don't be afraid to apologize if you were wrong. Always express your judgments to the person in the eyes and do not muffle behind him.
Step 5
Be open and friendly, ready to come to the rescue in difficult times, help out a workmate or friend. Always be responsible for your actions and do not shift the blame onto the shoulders of another. Learn to take responsibility or share it with others. Yes, all this is difficult, but only by working on yourself, you can gain respect and recognition.