A quarrel is not the most pleasant thing, but all because the misunderstanding that has arisen has the ability to develop and grow at a high speed. Disagreements between people can arise for various reasons. The most common is a difference in views and feelings. According to statistics, 70% of all quarrels are due to minor circumstances, in other words, "trifles". It is important for a person to learn to follow simple rules and control himself, thereby ending the conflict and avoiding possible scandals.
Instructions
Step 1
Find out if there is a greater cause for your conflicts. Not a trifle, but ardent discontent, which interferes with behaving sensually and kindly towards a partner. Have a conversation with him, analyze your feelings and express what worries you.
Step 2
Do not restrain your emotions, but on the contrary, release them outside, but not through conflicts. Talk to the person, tell him what you don't like, describe your emotions, but do not forget to point out his positive aspects. This will be an incentive to change for the better.
Step 3
If you feel that the situation is heating up and the fight is close, calm down, take your partner's hands and slowly count to ten. This is corny, but it really works and helps prevent conflict even before it starts.
Step 4
Learn not to get turned on, to switch to more pleasant moments, to joke. Even psychologists have proven that anger and humor are incompatible things. Imagine a funny situation, tell an adequate joke, and there will be no trace of the quarrel!
Step 5
Do not start any discussion during the "hot hours" when your partner is in a bad mood or just tired after a hard day. Try not to interfere if the person is very busy, but wait until the right time for this.
Step 6
As sad as it sounds, imagine that this is the last day that you see a person. You will no longer be able to meet with him, have a heart-to-heart talk or laugh. What happens if everything ends in a quarrel?
