The need to be in the spotlight and to please others is inherent in every girl. The only difference is that some deny this desire and do nothing, while others are looking for ways to prove themselves from the best side.
Appreciate your individuality
Be confident and love yourself for no reason. Whatever talents a girl has, if she doubts her attractiveness and the right to everyone's attention, no one will show the proper interest in her.
Respect yourself as a person, have your own point of view on everything, and do not be guided by the opinion of others. In a person, independence and the presence of principles are valued, and not pliability and humility.
Each person has character traits and abilities that make him unique. Highlight your strengths and showcase your talents. Create your own image that sets you apart from others.
Show interest in others
Excessive fixation on your person can push you away from communication. Each person wants attention and is sincerely grateful for the help offered or the opportunity to speak out when they feel bad. Become empathetic and notice the mood of the people around you.
Learn to communicate with your interlocutor on the "same wavelength". Everyone likes it when others share their interests, show respect and tolerance for individual characteristics. Pay attention to the nature and temperament of your communication partner. Some are used to speaking loudly and quickly, and may be irritated by low, monotonous speech. A melancholic person, on the other hand, will enjoy a calm conversation.
Strive for excellence
Show your best qualities in communication. Do not stand aside when discussing topics in which you are well versed. Share your knowledge, show interest in the opinion of the interlocutor. Learn to express your thoughts beautifully and constantly expand your horizons.
Learn new skills. Do not stop there, but constantly look for opportunities and ways to self-realization. Expand the scope of your interests and hobbies. The passionate person draws attention with their enthusiasm and skill.
Become positive and smile more often. Everyone likes to communicate with cheerful and cheerful people, and not listen to endless problems and discontent. Solve difficult situations at a psychologist's appointment, and stay carefree, sincere and friendly in the company. Try to joke more and look at life with optimism.
More movement! Always of interest are energetic and active people who do not sit still, but constantly generate ideas and carry out their plans. Set new goals for yourself, bring them to life and act again. Look for new opportunities to make your life brighter and believe in yourself.