It is known that by voice it is possible to understand whether a person is sure of what he is talking about, to guess his mood and inner state, and even to understand the attitude towards the interlocutor. The voice betrays emotions, true feelings of the speaker, no matter what words he utters at the same time.
Instructions
Step 1
Observations show that small children and animals react not to the meaning of words addressed to them, but to intonation. They do not yet understand the language, unmistakably determine whether they are affectionate with them or, on the contrary, express dissatisfaction.
Step 2
In fact, any person gets about 70% of the information from a conversation, automatically analyzing not what they say, but how it is done. The timbre of the voice, and the tempo of speech, and its intonation, and the rhythm matter. Such an analysis takes place on a subconscious level. Having mastered speech, a person pays too much attention to its content, but at the level of instincts he feels when the words are at odds with the true state and mood of the interlocutor.
Step 3
Therefore, it can be easy to determine when they lie in a conversation, express disdain or doubt, admire or, on the contrary, experience boredom when communicating.
Step 4
The voice betrays the truth, while words can lie. This happens because it is much easier for a person to control his words and thoughts, to logically construct evidence, than to master the art of managing spontaneous emotional reactions, which are manifested in posture, and in gestures, and in voice.
Step 5
Few set themselves the goal of perfectly mastering their vocal apparatus as a tool for producing sound. Rather, it is the prerogative of actors, vocalists, professional speakers. Their well-tuned voice, masterful use of it is the result of painstaking purposeful work, long exercises and training. Sometimes teachers have excellent control of their voice, but this, as a rule, is more the result of intuitive constant training than conscious work.
Step 6
An ordinary person has little idea of how his vocal cords and speech apparatus work in general. He does not think about the mechanism of sound extraction, how to consciously change its character, timbre, color. People use this tool intuitively, how it goes. And as a result, the voice gives out feelings, emotions and experiences.
Step 7
Aerobatics of self-control is the ability to master all manifestations of your own body so that volitional effort outstrips the instinctive reaction - then the voice will express only those feelings and emotions that you wanted to convey. Perhaps this skill will be useful during business negotiations, in dealing with opponents and ill-wishers. But with those who are dear and close, isn't it better to be sincere and let them look into the wonderful world of your true feelings and emotions?
