Modern psychologists say that another person's life can be changed in two ways. The first is a direct intervention in existence, the second is by changing oneself, which is sure to be reflected in the environment.
Instructions
Step 1
It is difficult to change the life of any person, for this you need the desire of the person to whom they want to help. If he himself cannot accept some kind of support, everything will be useless. Only those who are looking for a way out are ready to lend a hand to a helping person. Do not waste efforts if the person does not intend to change something, if everything suits him. There are people who are better off living in negative circumstances, constantly complaining, but at the same time not making any effort. They shift responsibility to others and believe that someone else is to blame for their disorder.
Step 2
Help is needed when someone is looking for an opportunity, when they are trying to change something. For example, a person is looking for a job, he goes to interviews, sends out a resume, he is interested in a good job, but he has not yet found a suitable one. If it's in your power, help him find the right job. But here it is important that the person himself began to change, he decided to fix everything, and you only pushed him, and did not do everything for him.
Step 3
You can help a person through motivation. Make him believe that he has a chance that everything will work out. After all, many do not go forward because of lack of faith in themselves. If you regularly cheer him up, throw up worthwhile ideas, it will bear fruit. It is as if you plant seeds, and he himself will sprout them and begin to improve life. This can be done in a family, throwing ideas to a husband or child, he will perceive them as his own and begin to embody everything.
Step 4
By changing yourself, you can help a person. Very often, relatives do not behave correctly in order to take revenge on one of the relatives. We can say that some things are done "for evil." The husband may not be affectionate because of the resentment, the son may be rude because he does not find understanding. To change them, take a look at yourself. If these are very close people, then it may be in you. It is worth seeing your mistakes, changing your behavior, and loved ones will also begin to transform.
Step 5
Money can change the life of any person. Help option - paying bills, debts. But just giving money is not worth it, because an unsettled person simply does not know how to handle them. If a person finds himself in difficult situations constantly, then he does not know the basics of survival. And then it is better to teach him how to receive income than just give cash. He will spend it quickly, and will not be able to realize himself without knowledge.
Step 6
A person's love changes anyone. If you constantly talk about love, if you sincerely treat, support, then life changes. Light feelings help to make the space brighter, make adjustments. And when love appears, a person himself begins to strive for development. But it is important to love not for something, not to demand something in return. Learn to give love for free, and it will change the lives of everyone around you.
