"To become a man - it is not enough for them to be born." With these words begins a poem by Mikhail Lvov, dedicated to the heroism of soldiers in the Great Patriotic War. And it is true. Indeed, along with countless examples of courage, perseverance, loyalty to duty, in those years there were also directly opposite examples of cowardice, even betrayal. And in peacetime, these words are true.
Instructions
Step 1
"He's a real man!" - when you hear this, you immediately imagine a hard-working, responsible person. But not all representatives of the stronger sex correspond to this.
Step 2
What is the general meaning of the concept of a real man? Earn money, provide for your family? But you never know examples when a rich person behaves in an unworthy, shameful way! Or maybe make a good career? Yes, it seems to speak in favor of the man. Well, what if he moves up the career ladder with the help of intrigue, flattery and slander? Remember: a real man is, first of all, a reliable person. He has a solid moral core, clearly understands what is permissible and what is not.
Step 3
If you want to be called a real man, do not let anyone, even the closest people, manipulate you. You can compromise, but up to a strictly defined limit. Remember: you yourself are responsible for your actions before the law, society and conscience. Nobody will relieve you of this responsibility.
Step 4
A real man never brags, does not brag. He does not scatter promises, but if he has already promised something, he will try to keep his word. If you want to be called a real man, remember this. As the old Russian proverb says very accurately: "If you don't give a word, hold on, but if you give it, hold on!"
Step 5
A real man is a protection and support for a woman. Despite today's reality, gender equality, etc. He is physically stronger, which means that he is in special demand. If you want to correspond to this title, treat your beloved woman with respect, protect her from dangers and hard work, help around the house. Of course, convince her that you are right with arguments, not threats, especially with fists.
Step 6
And, of course, if you want to be called a real man, be an exemplary family man. A faithful husband, a loving and caring father. Try to literally be an example for children in everything, so that they are proud of you.
