Many girls experience serious communication difficulties. It is especially difficult to start the first conversation with the man you like. And I really want to be in the center of attention, to feel that it is interesting to communicate with you, that you can easily gather around you a crowd of admirers and fans.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, smile. A smile is a reliable means of attraction. Smile and see how your friends and just passers-by reach out to you.
Step 2
In conversation, always try to be tactful. Do not offend the interlocutor, do not humiliate, and do not embarrass. Your minute "joke", even the most successful one, can cause hostility towards you for a long time.
Step 3
Be open to communication. It's better to joke about yourself than about others. Everyone knows that only a worthy and self-confident person can laugh at himself, and such people are always in the spotlight.
Step 4
Give up gossip. Of course, you will always find an interlocutor who will gladly wash the bones of others with you. But this person, in another company, will definitely "wash the bones" for you.
Step 5
Do not flatter. It is a dangerous mistake when flattery is confused with outright compliments. A compliment is a sincere assessment of a fact or deed, and flatterers want one thing - reciprocal praise. People will not respect you if you flatter everyone and for any reason.
Step 6
Master the technique of "active listening". It is important for the interlocutor that they listen to him carefully. It is not enough to "look into the mouth" for this. Learn to properly use non-verbal communication means: gestures, facial expressions and intonation, and your communication will become more harmonious.
And the last thing: do not forget: "they are greeted by their clothes." Always try to look perfect. Clothes should be ironed, hair and manicure should be at their best. You have to be confident in your appearance, no matter how nervous about little things like tousled hair.
Enjoy your communication!
