Each person begins with a family, because it is the parents who instill in the child the basic concepts of kindness. Then people are brought up by society, culture and environment. Kindness is a quality that every person has. But sometimes kindness is suppressed. This happens from fear, resentment, or when a person defends himself from a once experienced very strong feeling of pain. If life has brought you to such a person, then not all is lost, there are ways to make him kinder.
Instructions
Step 1
First, figure out what qualities are inherent in a kind person. These are generosity, friendliness, responsiveness, tact, attentiveness, cheerfulness, sympathy. A kind person knows how to forgive, accept people as they are, and always comes to the rescue.
Step 2
Start with yourself and do a good deed for the person. Lead by example, start a chain reaction of this quality. The proverb says the truth: “About gold and copper turns yellow. Around a good person, a bad person gets better."
Step 3
Involve the person in good deeds. Invite them to take part in a clean-up, plant pines in the forest, clean the beach strip of debris. Huge groups of people around the world are involved in environmental and social programs to help people and the planet.
Step 4
Encourage the person's good deeds. But only sincerely. Admire his actions and actions. Support his good endeavors. Perhaps a person wants to do something good, but he needs support and company to get started. Give him your hand.
Step 5
When helping a person, be sincere and selfless. Do not emphasize your merit and importance. Otherwise, you can backlash. At the same time, a person can feel anger and resentment.
Step 6
Tell the person that he is kind, sympathetic, understanding, does good and necessary deeds. "Whatever you call a yacht, so it will float." A person is inclined to consider himself exactly as others see him. At first he may be surprised, but internally he will agree with this.
Step 7
In any business, it is important not to overdo it. You can also do harm by being kind. You cannot force a person to do good deeds against his will. If the first time you did not succeed, continue to just shine like the sun, warming this person. After all, the sun heats up regardless of whether it is deserved or not. It shines just like that.
